Are you sure you are emotionally available for your partner?

In the married life journey, being emotionally available outweighs logic. It’s not about giving solutions or perspectives but just being a soft landing.

Ria’s story illustrates this.

Ria was devastated after a long day at work and shared with her partner how she felt about her boss. Her husband didn’t offer any comforting words to her; instead, he defended her boss’ actions by trying to give reasons for it. Although she knew that her boss was typically good, Ria wasn’t looking for an analysis of the situation. She wanted emotional support, a listening ear and some kind words.

This situation emphasizes why emotional availability is more important than rational thought.

Similarly, when partners discuss issues related to friends or family, it’s crucial to understand that these conversations don’t imply hatred or negativity. Mostly it is about sharing stories and seeking for empathy in connections made between people. In such moments, all that matters from a partner is listening and empathizing rather than judging or correcting.

To be emotionally available means sometimes your partner doesn’t want a solution or an explanation. They just need assurance that they have been heard out and supported in whatever they are going through. 

It means providing a safe space where they feel free enough to pour their feelings without fearing any repercussions from you.

In married life, emotional availability strengthens the bond and fosters deeper intimacy. It reassures your partner that their emotions are valued and respected. So next time, instead of offering logical solutions, try being emotionally present. It might make all the difference in nurturing a loving and supportive relationship.